Time may be free, but it’s the most valuable thing we can give.
Early Is on Time, On Time Is Late, and Late Is Inconsiderate: A Lesson for Life
Growing up, my mother had a saying that resonated deeply with me: Early is on time, on time is late, and late is inconsiderate. At first glance, it might seem like a rigid mantra for managing punctuality. But over the years, I've come to realize that it’s much more than that. It’s a philosophy of respect, preparation, and accountability - values that shape how we interact with the world and those around us.
The Wisdom in Early
Early is on time isn’t just about beating the clock; it’s about preparation and respect. Arriving early shows that you value the time and effort of others. It’s a small but significant way of saying, I care enough about you to be ready when you need me.
In practical terms, being early allows room for the unexpected - a missed turn, an unexpected delay, or even just a moment to collect your thoughts. I recall countless instances where arriving early afforded me the chance to engage with people or prepare for an event in ways that wouldn’t have been possible if I had arrived on time.
The Illusion of Being on Time
On time is late might seem counterintuitive. After all, isn't being punctual enough? But in truth, arriving exactly on time often means you're scrambling to settle in - fumbling for your notes, shaking off the rush, or trying to find a seat. It sends the message that you’re reacting to the moment, rather than preparing for it.
My mother’s insistence on this point taught me the power of composure. When you’re early, you can breathe, observe, and approach the task at hand with focus. This lesson served me well during high-stakes moments, whether it was giving a keynote speech in Bangkok or arriving for a veterinary procedure where every second counts.
The Impact of Being Late
Late is inconsiderate isn’t just about missing a clock’s chime. It’s a reflection of how your actions affect others.
When you’re late, you steal time - an irreplaceable resource -
from those who are waiting for you.
You disrupt the flow, create stress, and, in some cases, make others question their own preparedness.
This principle rings particularly true in my professional life as a veterinarian and writer. Whether it’s meeting deadlines for a manuscript or attending to an animal in need, punctuality reflects integrity. My mother’s words echo in my mind every time I check the clock, reminding me that being late isn’t just a personal failing - it’s a breach of trust.
Life Lessons Beyond Time
This saying isn’t just about clocks and schedules; it’s a broader call to respect the people and commitments in our lives. It reminds us to anticipate needs, show care through action, and understand that our presence - or absence - matters.
As I write children's books about animals and the environment, I think about how these values translate for the next generation. Respect, consideration, and preparation are foundational qualities that children can carry into every aspect of their lives. Stories that emphasize these values can shape young minds to approach the world with kindness and accountability.
Rick’s Commentary
My mother’s words, like many of the lessons passed down through generations, carry weight beyond their simplicity. They remind us that life isn’t just about showing up - it’s about how we show up. Early. Prepared. Ready to contribute.
So, the next time you’re heading out the door, remember: Early is on time, on time is late, and late is inconsiderate.
It’s not just advice for punctuality - it’s a mindset that speaks volumes
about who we are and how we treat others.
Comments